Monday, August 27, 2007

Titik yg berlainan...




Satu part dlm buku yg aku baca mlm tadi. (baca entry awal). Penulis ni ceritakan macam mana dier (Sanguine) berhadapan dengan seorang budak yg mempunyai persepsi yg berlainan darinya

Dlm cerita tu, penulis tunjukkan sekuntum bunga pada budak tu. Tak silap dier kata... "cantikkan bunga tu?". Then budak tu macam heran. Balasan yg budak tu cakap jauh opposite dari apa yg penulis tu cakapkan. Kalau dier kata cantik, budak tu kata tak cantiklah...

Sanguine (mcm penulis dan aku) lebih suka melihat yg terbaik dalam sesuatu perkara. Bila aku tgk sesuatu... Aku prefer untuk jadi seorang yg optimis. Lihat apa yg baik dahulu sebelum lihat keburukkan. So aku happy, sebab aku tahu, perkara tadi... Taklah buruk mana... But, kengkadang ianya menyebabkan aku terlupa setiap yg ada tu ada kelemahannya. being optimis selalunya TAK AKAN menyebabkan aku tak susah hati... Happy... Sebabnya... Hei... everything kan ok. Hei... everything kan baik dan cantik?

Setiap org melihat sesuatu dari titik yg berlainan. Kalau dlm istilah kamera tu. Kita focus pada objek yg berlainan. Bila kita lihat pada satu bunga, ada org tgk jambaknya, ada pada daunnya, ada pada batangnya, ada pada ulatnya, ada pada kerosakkannya dan ada juga yg tgk lama-lama... Then dah kene tegur baru cakap... Ermm oklah cantik jugak... Sebabnya dier nak nilai keseluruhan mende tu... Ye la... org lain auto focus, dier manual... Slow la skek...

Aku tak kata org yg pesimis tu tak baik. Ada masa, kita perlukan org yg macam ni. (aku tak ingat buku ape yg aku baca. Sebab buku tu ayah aku pinjam dari library Felda). Why? Sebabnya, kalau macam aku... "woooahhh ni ok. Ni ok... Ni baik... ok jalan yg ni. Cantikk... cun...."... Susah gak... Sebabnya, org yg terlalu optimis gagal melihat kelemahan dlm sesuatu. Sebab padanya, setiap keburukkan ada kebaikkan. Sedangkan, ada masa keburukkan tu kengkadang kita sukar ramal bagaimana caranya ia berlaku... Right? So... dengan org yg pesimis, kita boleh jadi org yg lebih berhati2.. Sedikit berhati2... Kalau engineer yakin dengan apa yg berlaku, dier leka dan mungkin menyebabkan kemalangan pada masa akan dtg...

Kengkadang, bila kita terlalu pertahankan titik-titik yg kita pilih tadi, kita mungkin akan dapat masalah. Macam aku cakap dulu2... Kalau kita terlalu ego dan selfish, kita mungkin akan kerugian, tak dihormati, org tak kisah, hilang kawan dan etc. So why not, sambil kita pertahankan titik kita tadi, kita tak lupakan titik2 lain kepunyaan org lain. So that, kalau titik kita salah, masih tak terlambat utk kita lompat ke titik yg lebih selamat. Atas bantuan org lain.

Kengkadang, dlm kehidupan, aku cuba utk pertahankan apa yg aku rasa aku betul. Aku optimis. Dan aku ada ego. So kalau aku jumpe org yg pesimis aku akan cuba pertahankan pendapat aku.

But sometimes... Cam dlm buku tu kata... Org optimis sepatutnya mengalah dlm sesuatu perkara. Bukan saja macam sebab di atas tadi. Tapi kengkadang, utk menjaga perasaan org lain. Titik aku, aku jaga utk diri aku. Tapi jgn smpi aku kacau titik org lain kalau apa yg aku buat tadi mungkin boleh menyusahkan diri org tadi. Lagipun... sebagai org yg macam nih... "Mengalah? la... bukan rugi ape pun kalau aku mengalah" See... Every point, dier akan cari yg terbaik utk dirinya... Utk buat dirinya happy... And org lain pun happy gak...

You know you can't change everything. So sometimes, you must accept something as what it is. Although you don't like it that way.. Mat Saleh belum tentu sukakan durian walaupun kita kata baunya harum dan rasanya menarik...

Smpi kuliah isnin yg akan dtg... chow...

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

aku dah baca 3 round... masih lagi tak faham :-p

reek said...

Remember Raja Petra said: More than 90% of malays were actually non-Muslims, because they don't follow the teaching of Islam.

Can a true Muslim prohibit another Muslim to build a mosque? Any part of koran said to build a mosque for the Chinese Muslims is haram? Another Malaysia Boleh one story yah?

I firmly believe, when I die and go to hell, I will meet many "Malaysian Muslims" there, all the munafik who used Islam not for them to be closer to God, but for their idiotic, selfish and vicious self-interest.

More classic examples of half-past-six mentalities displayed by the present so-called leaders, ministers, and worst of all politicians (monkey-brain), bad for the nation but good for those who knows how to take advantage of their stupidity.

Religion alone can never help us to become more clever and smart, especially with the present attitude and style of the malays, who are going backwards more and more, and heading for the caves and jungles in time to come.

In Malaysia the constitution is not the supreme document in law. It has been so trampled by the Umno gangsters; it has come to a point where these gangsters are a law unto themselves. To them the constitution is respected when it suits their intents and toilet paper when it does not.

Mob rule is tolerated by the police when it is an Umno orchestrated mob. Non-Umno gatherings are an inconvenience and clobbered to pulp.

Malaysia is dead as a nation. They are dying to call this land Tanah Melayu so we might as well let them destroyed it. It is no loss to the non-malays since they are treated as pendatang anyway.

Let these gangsters plunder and rob their own kind. They are notorious for inbreeding in any case. They would probably enjoy devouring their own kind too. Crooks and hypocrites at the helm will never grow a nation. Only chaos and disaster beckon.

I wish it were different, but I have long since decided they deserve what they get. No point in banging my head against the wall.

yoy said...

Racism in Malaysia is apparent to anyone who has eyes! Malays are just a bunch of cripples who will collapse to the ground if their tongkat is taken away.

Remove their constitutional rights, their 7% discount on houses, their 30% equity in companies, their quota system in public universities etc……….what is left?

Only a bunch of malays begging in gutters or worse, they may have to eat pork to survive!

ruyom said...

In Indonesia, there are Indonesian Muslims, Hindus, Christians. In West Asia, there are also Arab Muslims, Christians, and even Jews. But in Malaysia, malays must be Muslims to be called malays.

Religion especially Islam, is very effective in controlling the thoughts and minds of a people, and makes it easy to govern them.

However, still most Muslim malays are such a embarrassing and disappointment themselves by practising intense racial sentiment. Very very very few are open minded, and most of these good hearted malays are from educated priviledged and motivated background.

Too sad the leftover Muslim malays are hypocrite rubbish and will always be rubbish.

It is easy to blame malays (for whatever issue) since there are just too many examples out there for the minorities to exploit. Yes that holds some truth to it, so let us forget about the useless racist uneducated malays. Let us examine the 'smart' malays, the new breed malays.

When a smart malay who had the opportunity to get great education (e.g. from Oxford), uses racial sentiment which is a very cheap way to get around pleasuring own's nipples across the political arena, is not that another example of typical malay? Just that in this example it involves a new breed malay, the smart one.

Again, I am rude but these are real.

Every single person born in this Malaysia should have the same equal rights.

If the Muslim community want to respect Islam, they should give the right and protection to the non-Muslims. Not the other way round. For Islam is fair and is beautiful. It is the racist card players who changed the rules and adopted racism as part of their agendas.

It is not true that outside Malaysia the migrants have lesser rights than those living in Malaysia. This is a fallacy and you know it. Migrants (non-malays) are mistreated in Malaysia more than in other countries - go check your facts.

Umno racist sympathizer yet trying to sound reconciling - no constructive comments - all sound as if Umno racist is the one that deserve the chance and have the ability to fix……….all others opposition party are useless!

You expect us non-malays to just accept unfair justice, racism or corruption for 50 years and keep quiet about it? Thank God, he did not create robots. Humans are retaliate, free to belief and choose - ask Umno racist to do its best to block freedom - watch the fall out!

The world is looking at Malaysia - the decision is simple and against human freedom will have to face the world and God too……….one day!

As many have correctly pointed out, Malaysia is the only place in the world where there is institutionalised racism (NEP defined apartheid).

I guess any person who has followed closely developments in Malaysia can already see the brain drain from our country……….so I will not elaborate.

For your information, a large pool of overseas talents and professionals are from Malaysia or were once Malaysians. I even have a fellow PhD colleague pioneering technologies for NASA at MIT, just because they gave him a scholarship. He was rejected straight away by UM of course.

At least in overseas, talents are valued, appreciated, and given a fair go as opposed to the semi-oppressive and exploitative nature of NEP (and its spin offs).

Equal rights for every citizen of Malaysia and that is how it ought to be. The malays seem never enough to be satisfied with they have - such an inferior race with lack of intelligence.

The Malays, Indians and Chinese fought for independence from the British together. Malaysia is born from the strength of Malays, Indians and Chinese. In Indonesia or America, they obtained their independence in a different way. So please don't compare with the rest of the world.

History teach us that the first inhabitant of Malaysia came from China Yunan. The malay originated from the Polynesian. Malay history start from Parameswara who escape from Indonesia and settle in Melaka. During his time, Laksamana Cheng Ho visit Melaka seven times.

Melaka need the protection of the China from the invasion of the Siamese. Without Cheng Ho, there won't be malay history, instead you have Siam history.

Mass influx of Indians and Chinese was during the rule of the British. That was before the creation of Malaysia. Today we have Malaysia, who can claim to be 'tuan'?

God save all of us.

Indeed the real bumis are the Orang Asli, they too are migrated from other places many many hundred years ago!

By the way, if Islam is so tolerable, strong and beautiful, why in Malaysia apostasy is not allowed? If this is a worry, then it only shows how weak Islam is!

I pity Malaysian Muslims, you probably are the least free people in this world! Even Indonesian Muslims are allowed to practice apostasy when they become adults!

samp said...

When Umno says that you have insulted race and religion and that you are a traitor, then wear it as a badge of honour.

If Umno fascists and supremacists say that you are a traitor to the cause, then you must have done something right and that you are on the right path.

You should be really worried if Umno starts praising you and putting you on a lofty pedestal, because it means you have turned your back on everything that is positive, rational and just.

kelly said...

I am currently studying in the Australia, I grew up with the slogan "Malaysia Truly Asia" - however, this is not true, it seems more like "Australia Truly Asia" and let me explain why I think so - when I first landed here, I saw a multi-cultural society consisting of people from various ethnic backgrounds.

It doesn't even matter if the person has landed on the moon, you will only be awarded if you can prove that you deserve it. Your well being here depends on who you are (your personality), and what you can contribute!

Unlike Malaysia, where opportunities are given to the malays, regardless of what they are worth of. Shame! As a Malaysia citizen myself, I am ashamed to tell fellow Australia citizens that I am from Malaysia, because they all know that people like malays are given privileges.

The malays have no pride in themselves and that is why they will never ever be able to compete on a level playing field. There is so much discrimination among the other races that there is no sense of pride whatsoever in being a Malaysian.

Your eyes are open now because you are in the Australia. That is the difference between a developed country and a third world dump!

aston said...

This country was all along a land for Orang Asli. The Chinese originated from China, Indians originated from India, malays originated from Indonesia etc. China get to give priority to the Chinese, India get to give priority to the Indians, and the malays are just freeloading from the Orang Asli land by claming it is bumi land.

This is because they are doing what Allah said……….Allah told malays to come from Indonesia and steal the land from Orang Asli and use Orang Asli as slaves. So when is Malaysia giving priority to Orang Asli? The only time Malaysia is not a racist country is when an Orang Asli becomes the prime minister of Malaysia - which is never - it is a genocide in the name of Allah!

vesewe said...

It seems to me that BN is a fellowship of cheats and thieves, corrupted and unprincipled idiots, morons, sexists, tyrants who steal from public coffers.

God, with 90% BN members in parliament, who needs a parliament?

miya said...

Hi I am a malay. And I have never liked the concept of Ketuanan Melayu in the first place. I believe in equality and justice. I believe in fairness. I believe that Malaysia should be for all Malaysians not just malays.

It is wrong to be double standards. It is wrong to discriminate and oppress the minorities. It is after all, against Islam. But oh, the Muslim people I know would rather talk about appearance and threat rather than addressing the basic issue of human right and justice in Malaysia.

I am sorry that you guys have to suffer the consequence. We should all turn our backs on MCA, MIC, Umno and those craps. Opposition seems to be fighting for the better Malaysia for all Malaysians. And I support the effort.

yuking said...

If only the malays are a bit smarter, then BN won't win. The problem is malays are too damn stupid that they keep voting for BN. I don't know what poison BN gave to make them in this state.

cool man said...

Show me when do the malays consult or ever extend their hands in friendship. Do the malays really treat non-malays with equity and fairness?

Seriously, I think all races in Malaysia treat each others at arms length. The malays expect other races to kowtow to them and never the way around. For example, Chinese and Indians were made to learn and study malay culture but the malays are not made to learn and study Chinese and Indian culture.

Why do the malays have to be in a superior position (oppressive one at that) all the time? What is wrong for Malaysia to have, say a Chinese chief justice or an Indian chief of armed forces or even a prime minister!

How do we expect them to continue with their goodwill if we do not ever treat them with equity and fairness? I think the malays are paranoid and are projecting their own insecurity onto others.

That is my point and it is time that we begin to envision the land of ours from an inclusively point of view instead of exclusivity point of view. We have to begin this starting point somehow, somewhere and the time is now.

You are wasting your time by presenting the facts. Fact means nothing to them and you should know that by now. The Malaysian Muslims are seriously stupid and severely retarded. I am simply having fun. I work with them everyday and I cannot describe to you their inability to formulate simple logic.

As an adult trying to make it in the real world, I have developed a clear understanding of what goes on around me.

And this what I believe is the real situation in Malaysia. As long as the malays get their way in how things are done in Malaysia - there will never be any serious development in Malaysia.

This is the fundamental. Please avoid giving example of successful malays, because economically, the numbers are too darn low to mean anything. Negligible they call it.

Malays must realise that as humans - they are I suppose equal. But as peoples, they have attitude that is exactly like the aborigines of Africa. Completely hopeless, no matter what you give them.

The malays can never win - for as long as they chose to do things the way it is done now. Eventually, the other races would consume them economically, and they would be second class citizens. This is a matter of time.

My opinion is - the only way for them to succeed, is to take away all special rights and learn to get by on their own abilities. The stupid and weak malays would die - and only the bright ones would survive.

They are doing themselves a favour by taking away their special rights. Because look around you, the other races are getting stronger because our weak ones are dying.

We will continue to get stronger. And there will be a day, when we control all the financial means in the country. Then it is a matter of buying off each one of you puny malays - and then take over the country.

Anonymous said...

wei mangkok, daripada korang pegi spam kat dalam orang lainnye komen. baik korang bukak blog korang sendiri.

cakap mengalahkan orang pandai!!! tapi tak kena tempat!!!
BODOH BAHALOL!!!

bZz said...

Your comments, ideas, personal feeling, talkcock or etc... are much appreciated... TQ...

(ermm im not sure if your a man or a bot... :p)

jetjetsemot said...

hahah..entah pape je..orang cakap pasal titik die cakap pasal racism..gile bahalol tak paham bahse..

neway, i guess there are points dalam komenan tuh, just malas nak baca menyemakkan jiwa..hoh, bole ke?

titik perpuluhan..

lebih tepat untuk saya akhirinya dengan titik NOKTAH!

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